How to tell if a guy is into you

I’ve been listening to a lot of dating podcasts lately. For no other reason then I find that these hosts are hilarious and the episodes are very conversational, which I prefer. I’ve been listening to Girls Gotta Eat, U UP?, and We Met at ACME. They are all based in NYC, which really makes my heart hurt to move to NYC. So if anyone is reading this and wants to give me a job in NYC, email me at sadelacy@gmail.com — THANKS!

But anyway here is what I’ve learned from these very interesting podcasts and my own sad dating life. Side note: these are all generalizations based on our cis-heteronormative society. And to be honest, probably mostly represents white people.

If a guy doesn’t make a plan, he’s not interested.

This almost blew my mind but it’s so simple that it didn’t. Think about the last guy that was really into you. How often did you not have a plan to see each other? Maybe a few days at the beginning of the week? He doesn’t always have to be the one to initiate it, but if he’s into you, he will create a plan to hang out if you don’t have one yet. If he’s not making plans or accepting your invites, he’s not into you.

But if a guy is not into me why does he keep texting me?

Because guys will keep things in the air.